[Lunatique]

Enayla, I totally agree with you on that part. The begining, when you are both attracted to each other, and you give that "look" back and forth, but you are not sure whether you should make a move. . .. it's lots of fun. But what I've been describing is, AFTER you become a couple, it SHOULD be sweet, romantic, hot, and passionate. Agree? I mean, if you have to keep playing the guessing game DURING the relationship, it's kinda sad, isnt' it?

Count Zero, I like the blue-ish/purple light source bouncing off your face on your right. You look damn serious there. . .. I say let your hair grow. You won't have the chance for a long time to come. . .. Why the army?



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[Count Zero]

Guess what the blueish-purple light is?
Yep, it's coming from my computer monitor with this thread open.

The army? 'Cause it's compulsory. Simple. 12 months of it.

[Enayla]

Naw, no guessing games during the relationship. That can get tedious.

But no clingy �I can�t leave you alone for five minutes� crap either. That completely freaks me out. I am very much of a loner, and I can�t stand having people call me every ten minutes because they miss me. I want to feel secure in a relationship without having to phone someone up.

If you need that kind of confirmation, then you�re not the kind of person I want to hang out with - be it in friendship or in relationships. As I said - I like independent people. People who trust me, and whom I can trust, without having to scream �oooh you�re the sweetest cuddliest prettiest person in the whooooooole wide world� at each all the time. Nor do I like people who plaster themselves on me every time we go out, as if trying to tell the world �this person belongs to me�.

I don�t belong to anyone. Which is the problem with a lot of relationships - people think of each other as belongings in a way. I resent someone thinking of me like that.


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[Enayla]

Oh, and I'm not going to post my picture.

Already did that and I'm not in the mood to do it again

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[ceenda]

oh go on... you know you want to.

[Bradford]

Awwww come on, join the fun.

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[Count Zero]

Oh, and just out of frame are my huge rippling pectoral muscles and otherwise hard, muscular body. *coughcough*
As is my Nobel peace prize, congressional medal of honor, my Pulitzer, various Oscar(TM) statues and Emmies. Along with my MD and various PhD diplomas.

[Enayla]

Eh, honestly...

...no.

I would feel just a wee bit pathetic posting my picture in a thread that's about "the right guy/girl"...

But that's just me No need for you guys and girls to stop your fun.

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[Chapel]

I just want a gal who has a sense of humor and enjoys sex (with me preferably). Course I like it if they can stimulate me mentally as well as physically. I think it is cool for them to have their own "things" that they are in to. Especially if it is something that I'm not exactly in to and versa vica. Someone who could broaden my horizons. If I wanted someone just like me then why bother dating... I already got me. sniff sniff.. I had me at hello.


By the way, fellas I have pics of Enayla. I'll open a bid on eBay later.

[ceenda]

Sex. Good point Chapel!

[Count Zero]

I didn't post my picture as a candidate for an "ideal partner" for anyone. I may be narcisistic, but there is a limit to my ego-masturbation.

Hope people understand that. I doubt it was anyone's intention to imply that they themselves are the ideal partner. I sure as hell didn't- though Enayla seemed to see it like that.

[Nex]

Mr. absence minded, black wearing, milky faced nerd:

[EDIT: hmm the server does not want to show my pic.. i guess thats a sign of some kind]

ehm.. this post has nothing to do with the original topic any more.. just to get sure

I guess we just forget the original one and make a post your pic thread out of that one


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[Chapel]

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Originally posted by Chapel:
I just want a gal who has a sense of humor and enjoys sex (with me preferably).

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By the way.. I didn't really mean for those two to go together.

[Enayla]

Heheh, of course I didn't actually think that. I'm just teasing.

I'm not too fond of posting my picture, that's all.

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[Lunatique]

Count Zero--hahaha. You are one funny puppy. Girls like funny guys, so I've heard.

Enayla, you know what, I'm actually quite surprised, because from having read other postings by you, and the style of your artwork, I would've guessed you were a romantic. Actually, despite my ideals for a perfect relationship. I'm more like you than I'd like to admit, BUT, I think it's only because I havn't met the right person yet. I'm too much of a loner(my friends complain that I always do things alone), and my past girlfriends all complain I cared more about my creative passions than them, and I don't call often enough. Truth is, it is very hard for me to really fall in love, and when I'm not in love(even though I'm in a relationship--of course, it won't last if I'm not in love), I stay in that loner mode. I know that it'll take someone very special to make me want be with that person as much as possible. I think if I met someone much like myself, we'll probably cling together and make you roll your eyes and toss your dinner. You see, Enayla, it's not about insecurities or lack of other priorities in life that make certain couples cling together. It's because they love each other so damn much that they just don't WANT to be apart more than necessary. Let me ask you this--and you don't have to answer if it's too personal: have you ever loved someone so much that you just want to be with him all the time, and if his life was ever in danger, you would die to save him without even thinking twice? If you've never loved that deeply, then maybe that's why you have a certain distaste for mushy stuff.

Ceenda, I think you just came up with a great idea. Personals for Sijun.com. Artists looking for other artists for more than just critiques. . .. The unbalanced ratio between male and female would make it a bit difficult though. . .. Besides, I think all the girls here are already taken.

BTW, Enayla's posted her pics before. If you really want to see, you'll have to do a little searching.

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[Chapel]

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Ceenda, I think you just came up with a great idea. Personals for Sijun.com. Artists looking for other artists for more than just critiques. . .. The unbalanced ratio between male and female would make it a bit difficult though. . .. Besides, I think all the girls here are already taken.

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Sausage party.

[ceenda]

A Sijun-based-orgasmo-tastic-bonkathon.

[Enayla]

True love or not has nothing to do with it. Personality has everything to do with it. I have no need to be constantly around someone I love, no matter how deeply. Be it a friend or a lover. I�m not like that. Everyone isn�t dependant on other people for their own well-being, and I have a tendency to grow very tired of people very quickly if they�re pushed on me.

That�s how I work - if you work differently, then fine. I believe that love, true love, has nothing to do with physical distance. If you really love someone, meeting that person�s eyes should be enough... I have no need to be plastered all over a person to feel close to him or her - it�s a matter of the heart, after all.


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[ceenda]

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and I have a tendency to grow very tired of people very quickly if they�re pushed on me

Enayla: Wow, must be great to be so spoilt for choice.

[Lunatique]

I understand very well the whole "love knows no distance" thing. If you really understand each other, and trust and cherish one another, you don't need to be stuck together all the time. Intellectually, I understand that, but my heart disagrees. I guess we are very different in the way we feel about/act in relationships. For me, when I'm in love, everything about that person makes me feel like I'm drunk with desire and affection. The smell of her hair, the smoothness of her skin, the warmth of her breath, the sparkle in her eyes. . .. it's the most potent intoxication, and it can be very addictive. Strangely enough, I don't cling at all, but I don't mind when the other person does. Well, as long as I can get some private time to do my writing, painting, and music, I can snuggle with my honey all day long. Yes, go ahead, throw up! Roll your eyes! Ewwwww!!!! I don't care.

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[Ivey]

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Originally posted by FaithInChaos:
ivey you need to eat some food.

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Ivey eats lots of food ;]

[Ivey]

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Originally posted by FaithInChaos:
i didnt say she wasnt pretty. and im sure lots of guys would like to, uh...conjunct with her. she opened herself up to ridicule when she posted pictures of herself on a thread about what attracts the opposite gender. ivey if i hurt your feelings, im not sorry. but here are some pics you can use to flame me...

By the way.. sorry to hear about the windshield.... I bet that hurt, ouch.

these are the only pics i have of myself, so count youself lucky....notice those huge nasty zits on my head, eww. (1n 7ru7h 7h3yr3 5c4r5 fr0m 4 w1nd5h31ld g01ng 7hr0ugh my h34d, bu7 w3 c4n k33p 7h47 4 53cr37...1 d0ub7 y0u c4n r34d my 3l337 h4x0r1ng 5k1\\z 4nyw4y5..muh4h4h4h4h4h4h4)

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Its cool.. I didn't take it offensively.. I just felt liek posting a pic... Its better than that I WAS going to post.. ( a girl ripping a guys heart out)...

I am fairly easy going..

And I get that "You need to eat" crap quite a bit..

BTW sorry to hear about the windshield...





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[FaithInChaos]

slightlytwisted:
i may not act in accordance with what is socialy correct, and i may lack charm and style as you say...but this crap you are reading right now, its a cumstain on your matress. the fact that i may or may not be an asshole means nothing, cause i dont really give a shit. as a bunch of scrambled ascii characters your opinion of my personality are null. as for evil and genius, ive never wanted to be either.
will the yvel keen slightlytwisted reply? maybe.

to stay on topic; my "type" is female

[FaithInChaos]

ya, i was quite pissed about the windshield, i had just bought it for 250 d4\\0rz$. then some moron plows into me going 60. if i was ever in love, it was with her: a mid-size 1984 ford ltd, one of less than a 1000 made that year, with a 165hp 4.9L V8, no visible rust, and rear wheel drive action if j00 know what i mean.

now shes waiting to become some shmucks toaster oven

[Jess]

I just want to be in a relationship that doesn't hurt everyday.

[Lunatique]

Jess. . .. You don't sound too well. Are you ok? Going through a bad relationship? *concerned*

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[dr . bang]

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Bla blah blah, all i ever eat in my life was fast food, deep fried food and alot of it, and I still look like a guy who come out of a Nazi prison. You can't assume all fat people eat alot because he might eat less than a thin person do but his digestive system take all the fat and leave the good stuff out of his butt, trust me I live with fat people and i know. In this cause you can't tell her to eat more food just by looking at a small picture she posted. I'm sure she take it as an offence and i'm sure every one in think so. There's also a different between no eating and being healthy. I'm not saying this just because Ivey was being insulted, I'm saying this to every one who judge people based on their look.

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[dr . bang]

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[balistic]

Non-religious, nice eyes, and a cute smile . . . beyond that, I'm not real picky. Maturity is nice . . . I've been out with one too many eighteen-year-old emotional train wrecks lately.




A willingness to do me is always a plus too.



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[PandaX52]

It's nearly impossible NOT to make an instant judgement about someone based on their "looks" It's been genetically inbred inside of us for millions of years...you may not even be concious of yourself doing so...

sometimes I just wish I were a tree or something, this mammal thing just plain sucks...


P.S. and we wonder why monks takes vows of celebacy...all this reproductive energy is bound to distort reality as it really is....maybe my priorities are different, and maybe I'm just a strange person...i can live with it!




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